Nah. I don’t own my partner’s pussy, but we have been together for over a decade now. We have learned to talk about EVERYTHING. So that we don’t cross and boundaries we have put down.

I think most folks don’t even think about talking. We talked for 3 years before we ever did anything with anyone. We roleplayed it with toys and porn. Etc etc.

The first step is communication. Most folks dive head first without considering how they might actually feel.