• NathanRanch@lemmy.zip
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    A lot of these are just that, Narratives. No woman would jump into the arms of the bear, literally. Focusing on the details of wanting to be approached or not, it’s playing to the whims of content creators and rage baiters. People are people. If you see an attractive woman, make a move, and move on. So much of this just melts away under scrutiny. It’s only supposed to distract and serve the ad loops we’re all trapped in, not us. It’s not constructive, leave it behind.

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      But I don’t want to make women feel uncomfortable. That’s the core of the issue. If approaching them or treating them as a potential dating partner even might do that, then I won’t do it. That’s the sum of what I’m trying to say.

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        Bruh we’re all uncomfortable. Pretty much most of the time. Don’t rationalize or overthink it. You can’t plan for when you’ll make someone uncomfortable at the best of times.