• chunes@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    I would never date an extrovert or someone with no hobbies for exactly this reason. They need you to entertain them or they throw a fit.

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      9 hours ago

      This is so true.

      Choosing my introverted life partner was the best choice I ever made. Or the best choice they ever made for me…or somewhere in between. But great choice, all around.

    • bitjunkie@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      Big yep. Partner ≠ 24-hour therapist. If you can’t be alone with your thoughts, you aren’t working on your shit, and shouldn’t inflict it on someone else just because they’re there.