• whoisearth@lemmy.ca
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    1 day ago

    See and I took it as the same neurospicy toxic culture that seems to be growing from all these young men that are just generally immature and angry.

    Though god forbid you highlight that because many of them will rail back because they have all the time in the world because they’re all losers and some of them are mods and will delete your comments anyways.

    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      15 hours ago

      Literally none of this is about neurodivergece.

      Its about at least one partner being terrible at communicating their actual wants and needs and boundaries… then growing resentful… then issuing a total ultimatum.

      A scenario like this can only happen if at least one person is terrible at telling their partner want they want and need and expect out of the relationship, out of the other person.

      It can be that both are terrible at communicating, but it has to be at least one, the ultimatum issuer.