• FinishingDutch@lemmy.world
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    22 hours ago

    Absolutely. There’s way too many blithering idiots online. We made the web way too accessible to them back in the ‘90’s.

    And if idiots don’t get challenged, you run the risk of them thinking they’re actually right. And that’s very, very dangerous.

    I will admit the only reason I attempt to verbally correct them is because I don’t have access to a Reaper drone to shove a Flying Ginsu missile up their ass.

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      20 hours ago

      I mean, evidence shows that having their ideas challenged online tends to entrench people in their ideas more so than it convinces them that they’re wrong.

      So, while I sympathize with your goals, I think your method is having the opposite effect of your intended outcome.

      I say this, knowing it’s true, and still doing the arguing online thing anyway.

      • Kindness is Punk@lemmy.ca
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        It’s not about them it’s about the other people that might be influenced by their post.

        Online is never an A&B conversation, which is why I usually avoid direct confrontation and just provide well structured, clear information, because I don’t really care whether I can convince someone who has made up their mind.

        It’s about deconstructing the argument with clear digestible information for the dozens of lurkers.

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          LOL as if. Literally I will see people with logical responses getting ripped apart because the person they are arguing with just sounds more right and or it fits what people wanted to hear in that specific echo chamber.

          Say something cause you want to say it, not cause you are giving yourself points on an invisible scoreboard for people that might not exist.

          • Kindness is Punk@lemmy.ca
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            8 hours ago

            I think you may want to reread what I wrote because this is barely related. Feels more like something happened and you’re just looking for a vent.

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              8 hours ago

              No its related In that, I dont believe the lurkers are appreciating it like you think they are. And that logical responses are often still beaten by emotional forces. And, getting the high of watching a “nerd” get dunked on is likely more of not all of the counter arguments received perspective when commenting against the perceived right take of a community.

              If you are commenting, you are doing it for yourself. Inventing an imaginary person that is receiving your argument other than the person you are talking to is silly and delusional in the truest sense of that word.

              • Kindness is Punk@lemmy.ca
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                6 hours ago

                I don’t think it’s delusional to want to teach people things. When you respectfully deconstruct someone’s half truths it can help people understand.

                This is not to say that you should take everything seriously or that every person is worth engaging with of course you still have to be selective.

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                  6 hours ago

                  Imagining their existence without proof is though. Teaching people is different then screaming into a black box and relying on faith that it did.

                  And here we are back at the emotional response overpowering the logical one. If you want to teach actually do it than hoping you are passively doing it.

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                    5 hours ago

                    Is your argument that you don’t think anyone else reads what people post on social media, and that it has no effect if they do? Respectfully are you insane?

      • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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        19 hours ago

        Evidence isn’t what bullies and bigots rely on. It’s their feelings of superiority and their justification of violence.

        hence why they will never argue with evidence or facts. They will just insult and harass and threaten.

        and if you use the evidence of their own words against them… well get ready to get reported to the mods.

    • I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world
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      19 hours ago

      I hate saying this, I feel gross saying this, but the internet needs restrictions. I don’t know what the solution is. I hate all the ones that are being tried right now like age verification or needing an ID, because they really seem more focused on surveillance than anything else… But… God damn.

      The general public should not have unfettered access to the internet. I think we have shown that this technology is too dangerous for humanity as a whole. There’s just too many idiots and bad actors. Again, I don’t know what the solution is. How do you balance privacy and personal freedom with the dangers that come with giving everyone access to everything? Unfortunately, I don’t see a solution that doesn’t come off as draconian or controlling in some way, shape, or form.

      Maybe it’s something like a multi-layer internet, where the first layer anyone can access but is mostly read-only with a few exceptions. If you want to access the second layer which allows you to post, comment, upload, etc., you need a license. The barrier to entry should be small, something on the level of a HAM radio license. A simple class, an easy test, and a small one-time fee and you’re good for 10 years. You can even allow access for anyone at a library, university, or business.

      It wouldn’t fix everything, and deep down I know that if anything like this were tried it would be twisted and warped by the powers that be to become just another form of control, but holy shit we need something or society is going to tear itself apart.

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        15 hours ago

        This already exists. News media for instance used to have standards as to who they would hire - like you’d have to spelel properely and everyhting. Then most of the major outlets were bought up by the wealthy and… well, they still exist but people don’t bother to read them anymore.

        Even now, blogs exist (like Mastodon) but people on “social media” (where we are now) prefer to simply scroll and speak rather than listen.

        What you are saying still exists though - it’s simply not here. Read this if you are interested: https://medium.com/@max.p.schlienger/the-cargo-cult-of-the-ennui-engine-890c541cebcb.

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      21 hours ago

      yeah, your such a big tough strong guy who is so smart.

      so strong that you fantasizing about murdering people who upset you by saying things you don’t like… so brave. so smart. so strong.

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        20 hours ago

        All thoughts are not created equal. Something tells me yours are created even less equal than most.

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            13 hours ago

            yeah, so superior when you’re go to is insults and threats.

            yeah, your such a big tough strong guy who is so smart.