Idk if you’re a man or a woman, but that’s a wild take. I’ve definitely heard men nitpick a woman’s appearance, including chipped nail polish, but above all about weight, which is a big part of the original post.
In my experience, women are more likely to talk trash about things easily changed: judging someone for clothes that don’t fit well or makeup that’s poorly applied, whereas men will trash women for body type, weight gain, and aging.
And if you think a man is dangerous to a beautiful woman who rejects them, you don’t want to meet a man who is mad a woman “below” him has rejected him. That can be violent.


When you’re getting paid per job (by a landlord) you don’t waste time removing doors. There’s no “pride in your work” either. The AC doesn’t get turned on until next week. Sometimes the water doesn’t either, so every extra minute there sucks.
You also just follow whatever the last guy did. If I’m first, I cut in fixtures. It’s just as fast as covering them in paint.