• parzival@lemmy.org
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      14
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      6 days ago

      Not a lot of people think it’s fine, but nobody a tually has a clue what to do/ doesn’t want to start it

        • eldavi@lemmy.ml
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          10
          ·
          6 days ago

          i’ve learned the hard way that some nuero-divergent behaviors (like mine) sow distrust within neuro-typical people who won’t let you help organize w them out of instinctual fear.

          the last times i tried with the greens; lgbtq center in san jose; and the gmhc in new york; they had me spending the overwhelming majority of my time picking up garbage in parking lots and roads by myself.

          the last 2 times were galling because i was a software engineer at the time w 10+ years of experience in IT and offered my services as a response to their advertised needs for IT & web developers/admins; yet i was only picking up garbage alone 95% of the time.

          • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            11
            ·
            6 days ago

            I’m sorry to hear that, comrade. Lack of party discipline in how neurodivergent comrades are treated is a sign of serious problems witu the org itself.

          • DeepSpace9mm@lemmy.ml
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            4
            ·
            5 days ago

            That’s a terrible way to be treated. I hope you have a better experience if you ever choose to try again.

            • eldavi@lemmy.ml
              link
              fedilink
              English
              arrow-up
              3
              ·
              5 days ago

              fortunately my neurodivergence makes me forget A LOT so it’s likely that i will try again. lol

              • DeepSpace9mm@lemmy.ml
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                1
                ·
                4 days ago

                Haha I relate to that. I recently started applying to something, got hung up on a question, and realized I had started the process already and gotten hung up on the same spot

                • eldavi@lemmy.ml
                  link
                  fedilink
                  English
                  arrow-up
                  1
                  ·
                  3 days ago

                  story of my life lol.

                  that’s why i put myself into that volunteering situation again despite the bitter taste of the first one and also why i been trying to finish a book series by s.m. sterling for the last 25 years; every time i try, i run into hand written notes from me in the past telling me that i need to read the previous book to remember what’s going on.